Many beautiful souls can't help beating themselves up and blame themselves when things don't seem to go in a more desirable way. And the thing is, this self-defeating mental action doesn't seem to want to stop, right? I've been there. And now, it still happens sometimes, but definitely way less than before. In the past, I beat myself up until I sent myself crying. And every time I noticed myself beating myself up, I would say, "Doh. There I go again! I -shouldn't- have beat myself up!" And then, the next moment, I go, "Grrr... there... I … [Read more...]
My Very Last Words to My Mother
It was a sunny spring morning here in Toronto back about 7 months ago when I got the news. The snow was melting. I was sitting in front of the computer clicking away at the keyboard, preparing the material for a workshop I was going to give in 2 days. And just 2 weeks prior, I dreamt of my mum passing away in her sleep via a stroke. I simply could not shake off this dream. I even cried upon waking up from the dream the next day, and shared this dream with my husband. We were both disturbed. Then I called my mother and told her I loved … [Read more...]
How My Husband’s Singing Off-Key Amplified HARMONY and Love in Our Relationship
A few years ago, my hubby was in the shower happily singing at the top of his lungs. It was his one-of-a-kind rendition of “Can’t Help Falling In Love with You.” As he stepped out of the bathroom, he said to me with such big, earnest eyes, something I’ll never forget. “I know I can’t sing, but I want to sing. Only for you. "Right? "I can’t sing?” A second's pause. A part of me reluctantly agreed as I heard one thought in my head go, “Uhm, it is out of tune by most standards.” But I couldn’t bear to say that and break his heart. Not … [Read more...]
One Powerful Way To Actualize Your Heartfelt Desire Joyfully
In our last post, we talked about being aware of the different aspects of our self - that may be going in direction opposite to where you thought you wanted to go. So the question is, how can we get more or ALL of our different selves pointing towards the same desire that we consciously put out? And with more joy - as you know was meant to be? One very effective way to align ourselves, is to focus on what we want, rather than what we don’t want. You may be saying, “What? Isn’t that what I’ve been doing?” Here’s an example of what it REALLY … [Read more...]
10 Sneaky Reasons Your Desire Isn’t Manifesting Like It “Should”
In the last article, we saw that even though we are doing everything we can (and BEYOND) to achieve a goal, there may be parts of us counterintuitively speaking, that aren't up for it. So the focus of this article is to bring awareness to the sneaky illogical undercurrent that's going behind the scenes of our external reality that is not so obvious. Because awareness as you know, is the very first key in transforming ANY situation. Here are some kinds of underlying reasons undercutting our desired outcome. See if a light-bulb of self-awareness … [Read more...]
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